How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 03:48

Losing 20kg is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Why is only the left side of my vagina bleeding, on and off?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
How is TikTok able to censor porn?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
What would TERFs do if there weren't such a thing as being transgender? Who would be their target?
What I need from you?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
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Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Why do Democrats look like snowflakes and Republicans look like Vikings?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What is the problem between Turkey and Greece?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What can I say to a scammer who thinks he loves me, but I don't want to be scammed?
Does not procrastinate.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How can I be okay with being ugly? What is the bright side?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Procrastinates a lot.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Hello I am 17 year old boy and I am interested in transgender why?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Are narcissists happy people generally?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Making more friends is a goal.
That's it for today.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Why has my ex moved on so fast after years of being together with me?
Do not set goals—set systems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Why do I sweat so much after applying moisture or sun screen on my face? I have normal skin.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Ask yourself:
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.